She seek completeness to ensure she can become a suitable helpmate (Proverb 31 woman stand up!)
I remember watching a friend for years take off to enjoy herself traveling, working a full time job in leadership while seeking her career in real estate, enjoying her son, family gathering , hobbies, becoming financially fit, taking control of her mind spiritually, mentally and physically all in her singleness. She was always grateful for the little things and gave unconditionally. She didn’t know it but her husband was right in front of her the entire time. When we prepare ourselves and pour into our own soul, we better equip ourselves to enter in a heathly union. I remember jumping from relationships to relationships feelings broken each time. I would feel incomplete, unhappily and lost. I can really say my relationship were definitely broken. I knew my soul was yearning for more. I never took the time out before entering another relationship to truly get my priorities in order and enjoy the things that make me the person I love FIRST! I knew I had a purpose but couldn’t recognize it or even begin to figure it out due to everyday life problems that kept my mind distracted from my destiny, my purpose and my true identity. I knew I was never prepared in my relationship to truly say I was complete and ready to say I do!!! Whew!!! I have been single for years now and I remember always express my deepest desire to be married. I would magnify and idolize the idea of being someone wife until I did some heavy researching and just being around married couples. I realize I’m not at all ready and I didn’t want to go in unprepared. Today I’m preparing myself and I’m thinking less of marriage. The more you focus on being complete within yourself, the person for you will surface out of nowhere! Now If you reading this post feeling you’re stuck and not sure how to prepare yourself. Write down or journal if you would, situation that you’re not satisfied about in your life. Then write down solutions to fix those things, keep them in plain sight and excute with true intentions!!! My list was long but I see progress and that’s all that counts at the moment. Listen, I want you to step into your next relationship completely ready, confidence and with purpose!!!! However the case my friend is now happily married with two additional kids and I have watched her grown even more in her marriage. She prepared and positioned herself for such role when she was single and when the day came, she stepped in completely. Her husband knew she was a suitable helpmate and God did too.
Are you seeking completeness even if you want to be married or not. Are you preparing for whatever opportunity that opens up? Are You Ready or Not?